This week we read a little about St. Joseph. He has always been a bit of a curious figure to me. He never speaks anywhere throughout the New Testament and he isn’t even mentioned much with the exception of passages in Matthew and Luke about the birth of Christ. We know very little about him other than he was a carpenter, a bit older than Mary, was from the lineage of King David and he was from Nazareth.
When Joseph discovered Mary was with child prior to their marriage, what went through his mind? Did he assume that Mary had been unfaithful to him? He knew Mary was a woman of virtue so he must have been very confused by this situation. Matthew tells as that he was unwilling to embarrass her so he resolved to send her away.
Joseph her husband, since he was a righteous man, yet unwilling to expose her to shame, decided to divorce her quietly. MT 1: 19
Maybe he loved Mary so much that even though he knew that he was not the father, he wanted to protect her and her child. Maybe that is why he did not want to expose her to shame in their community.
Perhaps he was terrified that he wouldn’t be a good enough father. I am sure many would be fathers worry about this. It is difficult to know what he was thinking.
One day though, an angel appeared to him in a dream and said;
Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her. She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. Mt. 1:20
We do know that just as Mary trusted God’s plan for her, so did Joseph. And, just as God had a plan for them, he also has a plan for each of us.
Dear Lord, help us to trust in your plan for us just as Joseph and Mary did. Their faith was so strong that despite what they were being asked to do, they willingly complied. Lead each of us to love and serve you and to follow your direction for our lives. Give us a strong faith so that no matter what You ask of us, we are willing and able to follow.